Tele-Iyak-mode

Waking up in the middle of the night is one of the things I hate the most. Charot! Totoo.

Sinungaling ako! Or hindi ko lang talaga sinadya na ganon ang maging reaction ko? I am trying to go back to sleep but seems hindi na ako makatulog, para mapagod ako ito, magblog ako, ilabas ang nararamdaman ko.

Unang una, pasensya kana blog, ang aking telelalahbells na hindi naman tugma ang pangalan sa drama ko ngayon, feeling ko ang kulay ng buhay ng pangalan ng blog tapos ang laman, eto ka-artehan, drama sa ngayon. Bear with me, seryos ako. Promise na. lol

Para hindi mailto sa mga drama ko sa buhay. ito brief lang ang kwento ko.

Sa all life natin, ilang tao man ang dumaan at minahal natin, there’s always this one person na masabi natin na naging greatest love daw natin. Ows? Ganyan. sabaw na sabaw na talaga ako! Or baka nasabi ko lang yan kasi ang hapdi ng puso ko ngayon. (may sugat talaga, yon  na haha)

Dahil sa pagiging curious ko nga kay architect nong malaman ko ang pagbabago sa kanyang career, naisipan kong tingnan sa kanyang personal na buhay. Sa fb at twitter. May mga common friends kaya alam ko! (stalker ang peg) ito ang rants ko dati na kelan kaya ang pagkakataon na kaya ko ng tingnan ang buhay niya at dumating nga kagabi.

Pagkabukas ko, viooollaahh..

Magiging tatay na siya, may asawa na siya! Futah lang diba. Pero the worst experience I got nong Makita ko eh, hala natatae ako promise and I get so cold at sure the next thing I know, tumakbo na talaga ako sa cr para tumae. Hindi ata puso ko ang nastress but yong tyan ko ewan ko ano ba koneksyon. Hahaha

Sa mga panahon na nasa cr ako, napaisip ako kung saan ko ba nalagay ang ovary ko nong panahon na yon, plastic ba ang ovary ko, fake, manhid or sadyang kulang lang sa battery kaya hindi gumana. Hindi rin naman ako ready noon, char! It’s true, ang dami ko lang inisip, inasikaso sa personal kong buhay kaya things went bad.

Dahil bonggang iyak na rin ako, nagtext ako kay fiel, kay arline para may makausap ako kasi hindi ko alam pano ko ilabas ang naramdaman ko. Thanked God to King Archie also he was there to talk to me. Ang heart to heart talk nauwi pa rin sa harotan. Its natural! Ganyan! lol Thank you sa inyo, I feel better eventually, sa jokes, sa harot and sa comfort, all I need is someone or somebody na makakausap to divert whats in my mind, this what I called “talking therapy”  I was taught of that nong nagkaron ako ng unfinished professional issues with my mom, they just let me talk and talk until I cried and it helped, I moved on.

It’s just so funny reading his timeline with the hashtags na kami lang ang nakakaalam, na naging code name namin noon, even the dates that are significant to us, may notes pa rin siya. Kaya kahit alam kong may bagong buhay na siya ngayon, I know he can’t still let it go. May special connection pa rin in between kahit wala na kaming communication, I could still feel it but hanggang doon nalang talaga kasi. Sinisi talaga niya ako sa lahat-lahat but I have to stand sa ano mang decision ko noon, I can’t leave my mom at that time who is sick, trying times namin sa pamilya noon and hindi ko kaya na pagsabayin lahat, I need to give up and before I did that, ginawa na niya pala. And months after, ang bilis talaga ng recovery or palit period ng lalaki so I moved on again.

Like I said, just bear with me, just let me do the ranting, things will be over. Maybe I just need this to finally close that book. I opened it pa kasi dahil para maghanap ng dahilan para sunogin. Roots. Ang daming magandang memories that I can’t throw it away noon dahil siguro I’m still holding on to that “kind” of love I have with him once. Naiyak ko na eh, kaya ok na ako don. Swerte lang ngayon kasi no beer, no hard liquor na malamang sa 2^nd time hahalikan ko ang sarili kong suka, face to face pa sabay simot amoy ng pulutan malas pa kung boy bawang.

Lahat dadaan tayo sa ganitong pagkakataon na masaktan, madaya, at madapa para matuto, magkaron ng leksyon at makapagingat sa susunod. I am thinking this positively kasi if I dwell on it, ako rin ang lugi, ako rin ang hind imaging masaya. Siguro sa ngayon lang naman ito, eventually mawawala din lahat ng  to, once I cried it out, soon enough maging ok na ako. Focus sa career which I know successful ako don but palpak sa buhay pag-ibig, its nature na hindi talaga nabibigay sayo lahat ni God. Accepted.

I Still thanked God for this even though its painful, I experienced it, I learn to live with it and I will learn to understand and listen more sa mga kaibigan ko kung sakali mararanasan nilang masaktan din. Sana wag naman. Kailangan kong panindigan ang mga advices ko sa kaibigan ko dahil i will never be an effective counselor (someday) kung hindi ko i-aapply rin sa sarili ko ang natutonan ko. Nga-ngang nga-nga lang ako niyan! 

pero sayang na sayang lang ang sinigang na bangus na niluto ko last night, pinaghuhugutan ko talaga yon kaso nawalan ng tubig dahil sa pagbutingting ko nga sa twitter. hindi na rin ako nakapagdinner dahil wala pa akong nakain, natae ako sa stress. syet. hahaha 

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Reality 7: I'll be there one day.

I accepted the fact that you are not here with me anymore, you can’t rant over the things I badly made, and I truly missed it. you let me go, and I did too, this is because I don’t want you to suffer more, so you won’t be in pain anymore. You let me decide on my own now, you cut my wings, and you cut me all. I didn't know how to live after you left, after you decided to let go of the things you used to have here with me. I know that there are situations we can’t even control. I also know I have been stubborn all the time but I learned. It wasn't all easy moving on knowing that you are the greatest strength that I have all my life, what I am now it is all because of you.

I feel that pain every day, the more they say how good you were, it breaks me, I always remember how we have suffered, how we fought our lives together and I left all alone now standing, moving forward and hoping for a new tomorrow. Whatever battle I have now, I am doing this for you, I am bringing back what we've lost. I will be there one day. I silently want to be more than what they think I can.

I know you’re still here with me, you’re still guiding me and you want to give me the life I deserve. You are still the reason I lived up to my dreams and survived up with some expectations. It may never be the same again but I am trying to live on what has been left in me. I am still pushing this dream.

One day, I will fly for free as you always told me, “the more you travel, the more you get smarter.” Someday, I will wake up in a hurry to catch up some flight for work, wearing my best corporate attire, when I arrived at my destination, somebody will open my car, a car that has a Philippine flag in front, shaking hands to dignitaries, talking to my own secretary for schedules, I will be standing in front to many, making a difference to individual, promoting new programs and services to improve the lives of the people.  Travelling abroad as well to give honor to our OFW's, attend to certain needs and problems, I will be a motivator in my own circle, family, friends and relatives. I will speak for our country someday. From the law of attraction, these are possible if I keep on thinking about this, if I attract this to happen, this will happen and I will make this to happen. 5 years from now I will go back and read this again.

All these dreams have been made because of my late mother who is pushing me even I was still a kid that I can do more than what she did. I miss you mommy! And you will always be an inspiration in getting these dreams. I’ll be there one day! I promise. =)

Sunday's best now

It’s Sunday! It’s rest day! It’s family day! i learned to value that after I realized I was hooked up with work and school. I still work on school stuff even Sundays, I can’t refuse it when in terms of school papers and exams. I am trying to adjust my entire schedule now, learning to stay at home kapag Sunday, having coffee with my sissy and tita, lunch with my father and a simple dinner too. It’s a nice a feeling, I just felt it kasi naging visible na ako sa bahay! Hahaha I cooked to feel that I belong to the family, kasi parang nasa ibang bansa kami kapag weekdays, we bought our food sa labas, everything is rush kapag may trabaho.

 When I started to go back to school a year and a half now, binago ko lahat, my views, habit, the way I think to some things, attitude, everything I learned to change it dahil for me, I cannot touch others’ lives, make difference, or help them change their views if sa sarili ko I am still the same. I am changing for good, honestly! Hahaha if dati I don’t read my books, now I learned to read more, wala akong choice! Tan-ena! if you don’t read, nga-nga! Na nga-nga! Ka sa klase! And nakakahiya kasi ako ang ate sa klase, may work na related sa course so simple lang mataas ang expectation nila! Hahaha

I just added something sa change na yan, I will learn more to keep Sunday free from work and school stuff. Sana! It’s good to be home, lying in your bed, reading, blogging, etc. and guess what, I learnt it too na kapag weekend, off ang celphone ko! Hahaha yan! Para walang istorbo! No clients, no emergencies from school and work! It’s just me, family and my home! Sarap!!!  

Isang huling iyak daw

After I posted my last entry, I tried to open my winamp and boom! Boom! Suddenly it’s a love song! Bohahaha one last cry ang drama ni winamp! Tan-ena! i forgot to change my playlist earlier while Im in the office. The music is trying to change my mood after being “a little angry” mood kanina. Probably this will lead to drama! Walang funny sa one last cry! Hahaha I did that, I really did that but there’s still pain inside my heart that I couldn’t explain it, I can’t even express it. I am not lonely, I am not sad, maybe I am just hurt and I accepted that feeling.

I told you, maging madamdamin na ang post nato dahil sa lintik na one last cry na yan! Bohahaha I wanted to laugh about it pero seriously if only alam niya how much I am missing the old days, the old us, killing me softly ang dating ng feeling na yan! (saksakin ang puso!!) hindi ko rin pweding tapatan ng kanta ni dingdong avanzado ba? The “why can’t it be”  because hindi nga talaga pwedi! Tatanga tanga ako kapag go ng go go ako! This emotion is just temporary, I will go through this, I still have a life and a dream to reach. Kaya ko ‘to! Hahaha kebs na!!

Medyo matagal din na hindi ako nakinig sa playlist nato, tambak! Tinago at  nilibing! Hinukay ko para malaman saan na ba ang puso ko!! Charus!! Hahaha pero ang totoo I still feel the pain! Heeeww! I am trying, I keep on telling myself na kaya ko to! I did this before, I can still do this now! maybe one day, I will lose my feelings but I always remember how great it was. Hanggang doon nalang!! Tapos ang usapan! Lels!!

Taking step forward

I woke up half-hearted. I couldn’t explain the exact reason why, I just felt that my heart now is heavy probably there’s one person I want to comfort me, the smile would mean a lot. Choosing the life I have now will change my life forever and my future either. I know this is all I want, my dreams to be pursued. I wanted to finish the race I have promised to my late mom and I am keeping it for now. I am happy with the life I had but still it feels like there’s still missing but maybe this is just a temporary feeling until everything is over and gone. What’s keeping me busy now is my job, my studies and my dreams as well. There’s a lot to sacrifice in life and I want to feel every moment I am learning those discoveries i encounter as I walk in my journey. 

For now I know I made a right decision of pursuing what I really want in life. I still love my mom even if she already passed away, having this dreams I am doing now is one proof that my love will never stop and I am going to finish her race the same. When she died, it was my turning point and I am starting to change my life, the life I used to have and I learn to dream more than what I know I can. I know this feeling will pass through it’s time but now I just couldn’t help it and I am trying to keep myself busy chattering on social network, connecting old friends and learning to break the wall inside me. I wanted to cry to release everything I have in my heart now but i want to do it in a place where all I can see is all color green, the trees and bushes, I even wanted to run after the cows, chicken and experience for a while to roam around in a flower field, I think that will help me lift my spirit back.

Life has to move forward every day and we need not to stop just because we are confused, stressed out, hurt and frustrated, this is hard I know when I felt like the world is on me, the pain can’t get out in my heart and a lot of thoughts in my brain. It’s over I know and life has to start again. 

My shifting dreams

This is an archive from my old blog, one of my favorite emotions and thoughts before. I never thought that those visualizations i came through across my life's journey has became my real life and world now.

I could still remember how we used to dream together with my colleagues, how we wanted to be on the top of the mountain, you see I  dreamt to be an architect one day, I never thought that those dreams later than will just shift into some sort of who I actually desire to be and perhaps born to be. nevertheless, things take place for a reason and I’m thankful to the office where I belong now, that helped me to open my eyes in all the possibilities in life and helped me restore myself as well, it helped me to reconstruct my dream and begin to believe that I can have it. Shifting dreams is not that easy, I found my world but it was not my life then. We are born to be great, to accomplish something of worth for which you came into the world for. It has been said that life is nothing more than a search – a continuous search for a cause to live and die for, to be governed by the thought and dreams and propelled by a concealed urge to achieve.  It is unconscious, it is automatic. It is that nagging feeling tugs at you when you are alone, that there is something more. There’s always something more.

I have to open my eyes to full potential. I have to learn to treasure ourselves, know our worth, and look deep into ourselves to discover who we really are and what we came to this earth for. Only then can we be able not to fear our own greatness.

Bearing the sweet fruits

I thought I was done making a blog.

After I made the blog earlier, I went out to find my mom’s red file box. I asked my sister about it but she just nodded so I have no choice but to look inside the master’s bedroom. It was really unusual because when I opened the door I paused for no reason and my tears again started to fell. I looked into the bed where I always see my mom lying whenever I came home late at night. Once again, I started to feel the loss. I still grieve.

Whenever I feel the loss, I always remember those people whom have been a part of my mom’s death. So much I really wanted to be strong to face life every day without bitterness, hatred and anger, still my strength is not enough to fight back, to move on. There’s no easy way to forgive when you know that you have lost everything. The only thing that we have now, with my sister and papa is the principle, dignity, wisdom, reputation and values that my mom imparted to us.

I’ve tasted the sweetest word from other people whom have appreciated my mom’s good deeds. It’s true that “kung ano ang tinanim, yon ang aanihin mo” and I am proud to say that my mom has done her part in the society and I am bearing those fruits now. It is hard for us but the least we can do is to accept that mom is not with us anymore. I don’t want to think deeply that mom died already because every night or moment is a tear jerking.

I remained strong when my mom’s wake is going on until we finally said our goodbyes. They see me as mom’s carbon copy, physically and some of her mannerisms, ability and the like. Just when everybody thought that I am that strong, that I have a hard heart but what others didn’t know, I am so weak emotionally. i always have a late reaction to all the things that is happening in my life especially when it comes to emotions and my feelings. My life has been closed in the past, I refrained from sharing my emotions it’s not because that I am afraid of rejection but it is just a choice to keep it. Now, it is my choice the same to open everything in my life, I guess it’s about time to share what I have been through to lessen the pain I am feeling now.