Kailangan iplay tong kanta habang nagbabasa
para mas ramdam ang blog entry! hahaha chos!
Last night I couldn’t sleep and
it’s 3 am in the morning approximately. I browse my computer files and one
folder gave me so much confusion so I opened it, to my surprise, halos lumabas
yong mata ko – im thinking at that moment “the fuck! Na-save ko ito?!” then the
next thing happened was ang bilis ng tibok ng puso ko, sumasakit ang tiyan ko,
that’s the feeling na ayaw ko ng maramdaman chos! So, I read the files.
It was an email and some blog
entry. Right now, how long it has been already? This is one of those I haven’t talked
it about for years, I kept it. So like because I saw it, now I felt like it’s
about time for me to talk about him. Maybe. He is one of us. Yes. I remember my
jokes to some blogger friends na “uy! Masarap kaya na blogger yong bf mo!” deep
inside of me, super yes but I just couldn’t say it, I don’t know, I tried to
but I just don’t have enough guts to say it.
Two of us lasted for almost a
year & it was all worth it. Why? We spent our days as if it’s our last. Distance
was never an issue, hello technology it is. Until the day he came through that
door of an airport. I was stunned & I couldn’t hold my breath & I got
so afraid. That kind of fear I couldn’t explain, I just don’t know where to put
all those feelings. I had a dream to reach at that time; my thoughts are
running so fast, I couldn’t grasp it for a second either. He simply hugged me like he is just hugging a
big panda or a bear, we’ve been so best of friends, partners in all kinds but I
broke down. I ran away from him for almost an hour, I came back where I left
him and told him “parang I can’t go on! I don’t know, I couldn’t think, baka
sobrang na-stunned ako, happy or I don’t know!” we talked and talked na parang
walang mapupuntahan kasi that moment, sobrang na-block yong utak ko, na-blanko
din ako, everything was so different coz nakikita ko siya, I can even hold him,
different from what we used to have. With all his galit, dahil sa sobrang gulo
ng utak ko, the following day, he decided to leave.
I thought that was an end of us. Again,
we tried but I could still feel his pain through his blog entries. I know he
was hurt that I couldn’t decide coz all he thought I am brave enough to stand
and fight for what we had. I failed him. Days passed, when we had our fights, it’s
painful already because may mura na, sisihan, kwentahan, sobrang abusive na at
hindi ko na kinaya. I was studying & I tried to hold everything I could at
that time, it was tough, a super hell ride. I kept it all by myself, all alone,
I journeyed it. It was a failure of me that’s why hindi ko sinasabi.
One day, an old blogger friend
asked me “are you still two okay?!” and I told him, I don’t know, why did you
asked. He simply told me, I think you better check his blog & fb account. So
I did. I found out that, he is busy preparing for their wedding sa babaeng
nabuntis niya and his old friend. I paused & said to myself “ayy ganon?!” sa
kagagahan ko I message him and said “congrats, finally, yong inasam asam mo!” I
thought he will just say thank you pero epic failed dahil madaming mura ang
inabot ko, sisi, sumabog ulit siya sa galit. So like ako, ok. I went offline
for long.
I focused myself sa school,
family & friends. I kept myself so busy na halos paguuwi ako biglang
matutulog sa pagod. I have been happy with my friends that time too so kering
keri. Until I received an email from him, telling everything behind sa
pagpapakasal niya, sa buhay niya, sa galit niya. I didn’t have the courage to
reply anymore or to say something (bumalik ang long time loved one at this time
chos!) dahil I don’t want to feel na ginagago ko ang sarili ko or itong isang
tao na bumalik, never na akong nagcare to reply pa. Yong ending din naman that
year, double dead ako!
I know he’s just around in this
corner sa blog na ito. If you able to read this, I just wanted to say sorry for
all the pain I have caused you, for the promises I made and for the time and
your dream to be wasted. The love I had for you was real & true. I never
cheated you either like you always assume & claim it. Defense mo na kasi
yon dahil alam mo na sa sarili mo na you are just pushing me away dahil you
already had a new commitment. Years passed already & like you said “if it’s
meant to be, kahit saan pa at ano pa, mangyayari!” I always remember that. I never
replied to your email because I have no more reason to do that, this time, I held
everything, as much as I could share everything I had inside, pinigilan ko na. You’ve
made me a better person as well as I valued myself even more. Yes, I felt so
betrayed but even so, I learned to trust. Whatever it is, I am happy for you
& I am sincere with that. Thank you for everything, it was worth it, walang
nasayang, coz we journeyed our life together.